Anonymous Asks:
Hi! My friend is dating a guy who calls me a freak and that Im ugly and that I am ''retarded'' because I am 5 10'' and he is 4 10'' while this other girl is about 5 3''. Should I tell her that I don't want them to be together because from what I've been reading about friends dating your ''enemies'' is that it is selfish for me to say that but I really feel as though it's either him or me. I don't mind not being friends if she chooses him but I don't know what to say. Help?
thecollegecrush Said:
Hi! Sorry to hear about your predicament. It’s definitely NOT okay for him to be calling you names and you should voice your opinions to your friend in a polite way. But you also need to respect her choice if she is happy with him, then maybe it’s best to just not hangout all three of you together. Here’s an article, hope it helps http://thecollegecrush.com/2011/11/what-to-do-when-your-friend-is-dating-a-loser-drunk-player-etc/
xo
