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Don’t just scroll over this, this is one of the best posts I’ve had the pleasure of sharing with you. 

by: The Dating Makeover Coach

So, I had a first love. I am guessing at some point we all do.

I don’t usually write/think about him too much since it creates a strong emotion in me – both good and not so good. I still wonder about a lot of “what ifs” attached to the situation, and it brings a little sadness as I sit here, listening to my itunes “life-changingly beautiful” mix and let it all roll around in there.  But I digress.

Today isn’t about the magic of that first love or those slow/fast moments in the beginning, when I was so excited and crazy about someone that I felt like I was going to vomit pretty much the whole time or when I couldn’t concentrate on the movie just because he was so close. So then there was a slew of movies I had to rewatch at a later time because I didn’t remember anything about them.  Or the moments that unfold when you sit there and realize that someone else really, really gets you and more importantly, wants to take the time to try.   But that is not what it is about, that was really just for me.

It is about what happens a few years later when you re-connect.  When you both have grown up a little, been hurt a few more times and realize that you still have all of these emotions, crazy chemistry and ridiculous curiosity in knowing and understanding each other.  And then….now what?

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Did you join us for our first tweetchat, #dating101? It was awesome. Didn’t make it this time no worries. It’s a biweekly chat, our next one with be on November 8th. Mark it down in your calendars! 

For those of you who did join us what did you get most out of tonight’s chat? What topics do you think we should cover in our next chat? 

by: Dating Makeover Coach 
I still get a little nostalgic when I think back to the beginning of my freshman year. Over the first few months Ann (my roommate, bestie and partner in crime) and I dominated in getting to know new people.  Somehow through classes, our brand new social life and dorm we were meeting people left, right and center.  Everyone had a story and was just as excited to meet us, as we were to meet them.  Every day was new and had limitless possibilities of friends, fun and dates. Then something happened.  I am not sure if it was classes or winter kicking in, but we just fell in the rhythm of spending time with who we knew.  Our own little clique. Our clique consisted of ladies who lived on the same dorm floor and that was who we ate, studied and hung out with.  Judgments were made about other people (he’s a jock, she’s a library addict, he’s a science geek, etc) and although we were nice, we jut didn’t step out of our group much.

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